why do bad things happen with good things?

my family is at the most divided right now. we've hit rock bottom as a family. and all i would like to be is happy with my life. i'm so in love with my husband, we are at the early stage of starting a family, traveling (my most favorite thing), planning on purchasing a home and today i am told that a promotion is in my hands. everything is going for us but I can't be completely happy because when I start to ignore I get more disturbing news. I can't wait to start my own little family to show them how it can be possible. possible to have a healthy family life.